Being the Real Myself

How I Stand My Ideas

            Freedom is the one that everyone needs and wants. There are a lot of definition of freedom depends on who say that. In my opinion,  freedom is a happiness without complicated rules but also still in line. It means no matter how something can give you a huge happiness, it must be still in the base principle you hold. In brief, you still have to control your desires.

            I’m also a person who really love freedom. I don’t like something complicated arranges my works, if we can make it easier with the same result. I mean, why do we have to make something more difficult to do if we can make it as easy as possible? It’s wasting time, that’s it. As a person who lives in a society, the culture will always influences me no matter what I want. However, I never want to let society drives my live. These are some ways how I against the society beliefs.

• Trying to become an intelligent woman

            It must sound like a usual thing for some of us, but there are also others who againts it. Since I live in a traditional environment, which is education for women is not that important, it is not easy to stand my belief  to get more education as a woman. However, I always give my best to whatever ways that I can chase my dreams. Everyone deserves it though. Most people around me say that “being an intelligent woman is totally useless because in the end I will be just in home and do the household things”. Regardless whether I’ll work or not in the end, the intelligence will always be useful. Even a mother needs intelligence to educate the children. In brief, whatever we will be, as long as we’re still alive, we’ll always need intelligence to live. That’s it.

• Trying to respect other’s privacy in order to respect mine

            Again, I live in a society which the people like to ask about each other. It’s good actually as long as we just ask others in order to take care of them, in other words we don’t try to know every particular object of them. Nevertheless, we often see people around us who really want to know much about us. It maybe okay for some people, but it’s a big deal for me, so hell nay! I’m pretty sure that is not just me who want to keep the private live privately. Thus, to educate people around me, I choose to know about them just how it’s enough. I won’t ask them about sensitive things which can make them uncomfortable. By this way, I hope they will realize that I respect their private live, so then they will do the same. One thing to remember is that respecting other’s private life is definitely different to being ignorant toward them. note!

• Lightening people around me that maturity matters more than the age toward marriage

            Until these latest days, I still easily seeing young people get married under the age of twenty and it’s not a wrong thing at all. Well, it’s their choice; therefore they’ve known the responsibility (Hopefully). Nonetheless, I also see some of them get lost, and fail the marriage. They then end up being young widows and widowers with children that become their responsibility. Even though there a lot of things that cause the divorce cases, the dominant one must be their maturity on how ready they face the new life (marriage). I believe that the maturity of people cannot be definitely seen by their age. Everybody has different ways, phases, and length to develop themselves and achieve the maturity. Thus, I’m one of people who doesn’t really deal with “the age of marriage” arranged by the society I live in. Hence, every time somebody touches on that topic, I’ll rather explain my belief that just listen to their sentences which make me uncomfortable. Well, of course I would rather talking with people who can respect my argument.

Finally we catch up the end of this passage. I hope it can be useful for you guys who read. The last I’s say is “Don’t worry to be different, don’t be fear to stand our believe as long as it’s a right thing to do. Don’t be other people to make people happy because your happiness is worth more”