Why we should not underestimate other people’s life problems

You must have ever been in a moment when you felt like you might be the most pathetic person in the world. Then, every time people around you said that they were fighting with some complications you would think that it is nothing compared to yours. I had also ever done the same.

What do you think about it, guys? Is it right for us to behave that way?

I don’t think it is good behavior for us to do.

As far as I know, not everything we see is the same as what it looks like.

Some people may look so cheerful, but we don’t know what they are facing.

Others may always smile, yet who knows it’s the way they hide their pains.

Again, in my personal opinion, life problems that each of us has are not to be compared to each other to decide which one is harder and lighter.

Our problem in one stage may be more complicated than theirs, yet who knows they have another harder problem in different stages because obstacles come from different sides in every one of us lives.

A good illustration of this is when child A is struggling for his education due to the financial condition of his family. On the other side, child B has no problem with the finance, yet because of the divorce of his parents, his mental condition got affected. Thus, he cannot focus on his education as well.

Both children have different obstacles that then make them have difficulty dealing with their education. Child A’s problem comes from finance, yet child B’s from his mental condition. We cannot compare those problems and pick which one is more serious because, in the end, those two lead to the education unstable condition of both child A and B.

In brief, every one of us must have problems with his/her life. Regardless he/she shows it or not, we don’t have the right to underestimate it. If we cannot give any solution, we can listen to them. I’m sure it’s needed more than if we compare to our problem and say that we have the worse condition than them.